Quote Originally Posted by Miss Baphomette View Post
Really fucked up thing to say.
oh good god that came out wrong.

what i mean is, i have been dealing a LOT lately with the whole "was there something i could have said or done differently" in the deaths of two VERY close friends.

and, @Miss Baphomette , i've realized that i can't blame myself.

i certainly didn't mean that the person's life wasn't valuable and he shouldn't be mourned if he died. i didn't mean that in the least.

what i mean is that when people decide to kill themselves, there is only so much you can do and you can't blame yourself forever.

and the person crying out for help to @Sarah K ... i worry that if he kills himself, she could possibly feel like it was her fault because she didn't say or do the right thing.

what i should have said was "if he commits suicide, remember that, no matter what, it isn't your fault."