The Law and experts disagree with you.
The uncertainty is based on the power.
It's why "rape" is now known as "sexual
assault" in nearly all jurisdictions.
They don't do this to people of equal or more power.
Cheating on a partner is NOT the same thing as doing this shit at work or sexual assault. Adultery isn't even illegal, anymore; you don't even need to cite it as a cause of divorce in most counties and states.