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If you know what kink is, why are you suggesting that sex on drugs is relevant? (And implying that "weird" things belong in here?)
And what's offensive? Having someone who is not involved in kink calling *me* pretentious and deciding *he* should be the one making definitions and drawing boundaries. After telling me to go fuck myself.
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Pretentious AND presumptuous, from what I'm seeing. I'm amazed at what you think you can deduce from a single post. You clearly missed some of the obvious components within that, extremely brief, post.Originally Posted by jessamineny
I'm not making any definitions or boundaries. I'm also no longer going to continue participating with your petulant derail, that's the boundary I will draw.
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Hey, so I wish someone was slapping me!
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Out of curiosity, what were the board games that were planned at the beginning of the party? That sounds like it was a pretty disappointing change in plans with the lack of directions.
Alt-Left Leaning Cunt
I dunno. We usually play Cards Against Humanity when I hang out with people from that circle. Good ice breaker when there are new people and such.
It was really disappointing! I spent allll day psyching myself up for it. The chick just moved, so we didn't get an address. Just an intersection. I dunno what happened.
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It's been my experience that social gatherings like that are at best a disappointment. The first time you go, anyway. Things either develop or they don't, but your first time out it's best not to have any high expectations. I was 20 years old the first time I went to a munch, and actually cried on the way home. It got sort of better (but didn't last long, for reasons I won't get into) but the nervousness I'd usually have never went away. I got out of my car and my knees started to buckle, like clockwork.
Alt-Left Leaning Cunt
I'm fine with munches. I help run one. But this was the first play party type of deal I was going to attend.
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Munches are fucking dull. Plain people talking about how kinky they are, yet lower their voice every time they mention sex.
Also fetishes are generally "weird" things about sex that you're into, and sex on drugs is a pretty weird sex thing so feasibly a fetish. And entirely more entertaining to read than most of what goes on in the Fucking thread lately.
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Haha. We normally just go hang out and do normal people shit. Bowling, movies, dinners, etc. There has only ever been one girl who was like SEX SEX SEX. But she only showed up once.
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Yeah but, I have friends for that. And we all talk more freely about sex than anyone at a munch. AND THESE FETISH CUNTS WON'T COME TO PRIDE.
Alt-Left Leaning Cunt
Yeah. I guess I've kinda used it as a base to MAKE friends, since I'm still pretty new here and all.
And fucking agree on the Pride thing. I don't understand that shit like at all. I volunteered at Brooklyn Pride a couple of weeks back, and was trying to get others. Exactly ONE person asked about it. It's frustrating. I've been too busy with family shit recently to be bothered setting anything up. I think I'll just kinda step back from it. I mean, trying to get people in NYC to plan to do ANYTHING is goddamn impossible. It takes up too much time putting shit together, and I'm annoyed by it. I'll still show up or whatever. But I'm not going to put in the time to organize shit anymore. Fuck 'em.
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Ugh, why are the nice things always so damn expensive!
Alt-Left Leaning Cunt
WOW. I had no idea that type of stuff was so spendy.
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Just under 500 Australian with shipping, not including custom work (colours, moulding). I'm not downing the guy's work, I'm sure the quality is worth the money, but fuuuuuu.
Alt-Left Leaning Cunt
You can't find anything similar in Australia?
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Not that I can find. I am a lone wolf, so I haven't joined any local packs to really find out. People whom I have talked to online have pointed out rubberdawg as the best in product and service. Saving is the only option, but bills always take priority. hnnnggg, one day.
just a small town doggo
SAX leather (Australian brand) have some wolf style things but I'm not sure of their range, sorry. Might be worth checking them out and if they don't have anything, emailing to see who could help?
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So kink.com has basically turned to shit in the past year, huh? What used to be various niches of D/s scenarios is just "random people having sex and sometimes there's a Hitachi around". Pubic Disgrace - same as last time, but this time they're in a pizza shop! Next time they're in an ally! Ooh, kinky(!).
ladyborg
I was just thinking that earlier today. time to move on...any suggestions? or maybe this should be in the spice thread..
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I've gradually given up on porn as a regular thing as of late. Kink started with good intentions but now I think they're becoming more and more like a porn studio rather than something reflective, educational and damn hot for some of us. They're also doing more and more scripted stuff which I hate.
Have you ever seen any of the old Insex or current stuff from HardTied and related sites? Those are way edgier than Kink is now at least.
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I've not tried either site @onthewall2983 - I'll look them up. *edit* meh. It's just plain old bondage and CP.
I've been struggling to find porn that does it for me in general too. I thought it was just me. I've experienced a lot of the things that now turn me on, so porn that is just naked bodies in X scenario doesn't work. Even asstr.org is getting a bit bleh. And my internet at home has been down for the past month, so if anything I was ready to be ravenous!
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I wish FetLife would let people peruse each other's "loved" section (the "love" function applies to any picture, video or writing on the site). FL has been pretty much the last resort for me as far as finding porn (if you could call it that since most if not all of it is user-generated) because I go for more real stuff, that real people do.
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Yeah, that needs to be far more searchable. K&P is once again "oh hai, I lifted up my top in my bedroom and this is what it looks like *giggle*"
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Chatting to an experienced pup/artist I met on FetLife and learning a LOT about both sides of play. I must say the site so far has been great for meeting and chatting to some nice people.
Last edited by somethingelse; 08-20-2014 at 02:06 AM.
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The puppies are the best!
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Got a hairbrush perfect for spanking yesterday. Just no one to use it on
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Why do subs always go for the "Daddy" thing. Wow, that's a vibe I don't get at all. I just want a sub, not a pedo-fantasy.
Alt-Left Leaning Cunt
Goddamn it, I need my facepalm button back.
It isn't a goddamn pedo fantasy.
Hairy Member
Ah. Then I must have the wrong idea. Genuinely curious.. enlighten me, if you will?
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