I don't think it should either, but I've seen and heard of it being a barrier for some people. As for me, and this is just me, but drinker or not, I don't mind hanging out as long as we're cool. That's all that really matters to me.
I see what you mean, since I'm sure lots of people probably could and would expect the opposite from a musician, but of course, I wouldn't be one of those people that would hold it against you. I also don't think I'd even want to do that either, unless we really were cool, but would still prefer my bedroom or her bedroom... not a public bathroom.
That's true, and that would be one hell of a fine coincidence for me, should that ever happen. Thank you for your kind words and reassurance as well.![]()