What made you quit drinking/smoking? What made you choose to not start drinking/smoking? I also bring this up because I have a hard time understanding why some drinkers don't like being around non-drinkers. Of course, if the non-drinker was to get all preachy, derogatory, judgmental, and pompous, I could see that, but if that's not the case, why is it such a problem? And from the looks if it, it seems like some drinkers wouldn't want to be around quiet people too. Is it really because they believe that quiet people can't be trusted, especially when they're sober due to harboring secrets and telling lies? That was another argument I came across aside from non-drinkers being a buzzkills, control freaks, or complete and utter bores.
And I feel like it's bad to impose on either side. I didn't go around telling people to stop drinking, and I'm actually not a teetotaler at this point of my life either, but I also didn't feel compelled to convert everybody into drinkers the same way I don't try to convert vegetarians/vegans into eating meat. I even feel the same way about them too. As long as they're not condemning me and ridiculing me for eating meat, I could be cool with them too. I also hope I didn't offend any drinkers here. I'm all for your right to drink as much as you please, like how I'm for a vegetarian/vegan to abstain from as much meat and animal products as they please despite how much I love beef. And even if I was a teetotaler, I'd do a thing called mind my damn business.
This topic has always piqued my curiosity ever since I was ragged on for not drinking by drinkers. And while I'm not a teetotaler at this point of my life, my lifestyle is a straight-edge kind of lifestyle in a way. There was even a woman I liked that refused to explain why me not drinking was a problem. She just assumed that I was judging her even when I didn't say anything bad to her. Me not smoking made her feel bad too.
I think this could also be a non-smoker thread as well. Oh, and since I changed my mind far too late on including the word smoker, the drinking and smoking parts could be interchangeable here.