to be fair I made it more complicated than it needed to be by double posting. I am well clear of that man going on three years now.
OTOH, he did eventually get the promotion he wanted and was in charge of a national program that he was in no way qualified for. AND he was even given a bump in pay that he also wasn't qualified for since he didn't have the time in service for it and only asked for it on a whim. He liked to brag about that.
Then I found out that he was further 'promoted' to a position in Chicago. Weird, that's where his daughters and grandkids live...how nice for him. Yeah, I know but I believe he actually would because his assistant director did and they would wield the lawyers like a cudgel.
and I agree about Sarah, I was only doing the ritualistic bleeding out of bad memories.