Originally Posted by
Lew
ah, allegro, this person is most definitely going to be having children. I was addressing them specifically, not anyone else. I get that people don't want to have kids, and I have no problem with that. my eldest sister was a caregiver to her 4 siblings and heartily and happily chose not to have kids. I don't blame her for it. thank you for acknowledging the point that what we intend before we have an experience is usually nothing like what actually happens.
I am venting here because I cannot violently vent to the person in question. I can, and have, and will, address my specific issues with them, but I needed to trip out prior to doing so.