Dave isn't cool at all in my book. He's an insufferable smug git, a smarmy bastard. He gets a pass because he was in Nirvana and he's so cute and cuddly and "OMG THE NICEST MAN IN ROCK." But he isn't. He's kind of snarky and always says "the right thing" and always plays it super safe. He has nothing of interest to say, in his life and in his music, which is as boring and middle of the road as you can get. Insecure rockstars stand behind him, and wear him like a badge of legittimacy. He is not the exception but the proof that drummers should stay behind the drum kit and STFU. And even as a drummer I find him overrated.
King Buzzo gets it. The rest are just fooled by him.