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Yes. I've also cried after too. Not in a bad, poor me sort of way, but an wow a bit overwhelmed sort of way. Someone was told me it was catharsis. Meh, just as a long as it only happens once in a great while., I don't think I totally like the overwhelmed feeling. Too out of control.Originally Posted by playwithfire
As for tips: I've taken to keeping my finger nails polished. I'm told the contrast of pale fingers and red nails is a big turn on.
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Well shit, now I'm curious.
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No not important. I just realized it was kind of inappropriate coming from me.
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http://www.salon.com/2013/01/19/an_o...ost_killed_me/
You might want to have that checked out.
Bite me
Um, no.
"“An AVM is not caused by anything,” Dr. Santanorexic said quietly. “It is a congenital birth defect — a defect that develops in the fetus during the third month of pregnancy. Behavior didn’t cause it. Ashok was born with it."
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It was a joke. Clearly, he originally thought it was caused by an organism. Still covered in shame. Makes me crazy
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I've made girls cry, laugh, pass out, lose visual and auditory senses and have mild seizures after orgasms before. I once even made an ex of mine involuntarily bark like a dog during one. How did I do it?
I listened and paid attention. Learn your partner's likes and dislikes, listen to their advice and learn what their various responses (both good and bad) mean. As other members have stated, what works magic for some may not do jack shit for others. Even if you've been with the same person for years, you can still find new things that you've never done before that can make them lose their damn minds. Hell, you might even find out about kinks and fetishes that they've kept bottled up out of fear or embarrassment that could add to your love life.
Do I claim to be an expert/sex god? Not at all. I just try to read my partner and do my best to make it as good as I possibly can.
just a small town doggo
Running out of condoms means no sex, but I've completely forgotten how much fun you can have without fucking! My FB and I spent hours last night just going down on each other and tying each other up and spanking and choking and all of the things... SO MUCH FUN! SO MANY ORGASMS!
And dat deepthroat smell... Lovely combination of cock and cum and drool. *happy sigh*
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Ugh. Thursday will be 4 weeks since I've had sex.
When you move to New York, people fail to tell you that having sex here is difficult. Everyone has roommates or lives with family. Not to mention people have to work multiple jobs to make rent... You basically have to schedule sex a week ahead of time, and it's the worst.
Not to mention that I'm just kinda drifting away from the guy I've been seeing since I got here. It isn't as fun anymore, and feels more like a chore than an enjoyable experience. And I feel like trying to find someone new is too much of a hassle. So I'll just be depressed instead.
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Didn't you move to NYC to be in a poly household? That's rough.
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Yes... That ended in a clusterfuck in a rather quick time frame! Can't wait to be able to leave now!
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Well, at least NYC is one of the cities where Okcupid actually works. Lots of poly people on there and stuff. Sorry you've been having a shit time.
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Haha. I actually signed up for that at the urging of someone off of fet. I've fucked around with it a little bit. It actually seems pretty cool. But I just feel like I can't be bothered with dating at the moment. I'm at work about 70 hours a week right now. I'm just trying to focus on getting money saved up, and moving somewhere that is a bit more realistic for a single person. I never would have moved here had I known that I was going to end up on my own so quickly. But I'm trying to make the best of it. I'm making pretty good money. So I figure I'll stick around for another year, get the to see all of the things that I want to see while here, and then find somewhere a bit more practical.
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I finally got my boots properly knocked off. It had been a few weeks and now I want more.
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^ Pretty much this.
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We weren't doing anal, but we were going doggy style at the time, appropriately enough. My reaction was intense arousal followed closely by one of the most intense orgasms I've ever had. And her reaction was also an incredibly intense orgasm, followed by a period of about ten minutes where she lost most of her fine motor skills, so there wasn't much talking on her behalf beyond the occasional giggle and short breathed "fuck".
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I BET WE ALL KNOW THIS FEELING RIGHT GUYS
I want people to tell me about more sex moves. I'm communicative as fuck.
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The only way I orgasm without offering a helping hand is in missionary. Annoying.
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It's all about what they whisper in my ear. Some of the best things I can't repeat, NOT EVEN TO YOU PEOPLE
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I heard that... My ears are directly wired to my vagina.
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I have to keep a hand down there to get off even if it's missionary. It doesn't need to be for the whole time, but if my clit isn't being stimulated I can't really orgasm and it's really hard to hit it other ways. My partner can try or we can sometimes figure out an angle where I'm on top, but that's rarely as good or easy or as possible. I mean, I can also get off pretty easily from oral and things like that, which is good. But I'm very used to coming when we fuck and it's because I do what I outlined.
I can't mind it because it's something I view as normal (thanks, porn!) and I'm too busy having great sex and great orgasms to worry too much about it. It's just how my anatomy is.
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I usually don't help unless I'm drunk or something. I can sometimes still enjoy sex without having an orgasm. But I feel like if I do all the work for him, he'll never learn!
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Eh, to each their own. I like to orgasm when I have sex. It's important to me. I don't always have to, but generally I prefer it, and I'm definitely not doing all the work. It's definitely not like some intrusive or dominant part of us fucking. We got a cockring with a vibrator but we still haven't used it due to laziness/forgetting. We should try it. But yeah, it has nothing to do with him learning or not for me. I don't have internal orgasms, pretty simply. And he can do way more shit to me when he's not worried about having a hand free to rub my clit.
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Yeah. I am aware that I'm extremely lucky that I can orgasm from penetration alone. For me, orgasms seem to be largely in my head. Which is why it fucks with me that it only happens in missionary. I think perhaps I concentrate on it too much in other positions, since it has never happened. There are other positions that *feel* just as good/better. So it makes no sense to me.
And those rings are good for both parties involved! Had one back in the day.
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Recent understanding for me too.
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I'm pretty much #4 and #6.
just a small town doggo
"Clusterfuck" is a really accurate description of most of the poly relationships I see around me. Really sorry to hear that it didn't work out for you - at least it happened sooner rather than later.
It's definitely not for me. In theory, I get it and I can kinda see the appeal - the problem is that most people tend to practice polyfuckery rather than polyamory.
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Yep. That was basically it. He could bring home whoever. Me and the other girl were expected to wait around for him, more or less. Him and the other girl got into it one day while I was gone. He just disappeared back to Jersey with his family. Left two girls from the Midwest to fend for themselves in NYC. We had 10 days to find places to stay. I didn't have a job at the time, so I'm in an awful place.
But hey, at least I got outta Nebraska! Lol. Things are evening out now, though. Have two jobs. Getting caught up on bills. I can see a little glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel.
I'm not opposed to poly in and of itself. But that was for sure an awful, awful experience. I discovered that it's probaboy not for me. Lesson learned.
just a small town doggo
I can say with absolute certainty that what he was selling, was definitely not polyamory. "I can have as many partners at I want, but they must all be faithful to me". *rolls eyes*
What a wanker! Glad to hear that you're in a better place now and hey, at least it was a learning experience.
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That is not a Man.
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