Harvey Weinstein

[allegro]

Females having to “explain our logic” as to our experiences and how we fight but get nowhere is when I know I’m just up against a “notallmen” argument, putting the onus on us and our individual superpowers that we are too stupid and wimpy to know we have to fix this problem. After 40 years of (cough) “explaining” (defending), forget it, useless. But, it’s nice that so many guys here really "get" it.

- John harasses Betty

John made the choice to do something illegal, immoral and reprehensible to another human being

It isn’t / shouldn't be up to BETTY to handle harassment and or assault or abuse and take John out of the RESPONSIBILITIES picture; IT SHOULD NOT have fucking HAPPENED IN THE FIRST PLACE. John had the option of not being a fucking ASSHOLE, thereby not putting all these CHOICES (post abuse) on Betty. SOCIETY (legislation, peer pressure, education) is also expected to protect Betty-the-fellow-citizen.

Compare to this:

- John shoots Tom in the head

Tom can then:
- call the police
- drag himself to a hospital if he regains consciousness
- write a note with his own blood saying “John shot me” before he dies

It’s allllllllll about Tom and his choices?

Lol lol