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Anyone see the amendment to the ATVOD legislation that crept in this morning?
It's now illegal in the UK to depict watersports, female ejaculation, facesitting, caning or spanking above a light level, full knuckle fisting and depictions of people bound & gagged or simulated non consensual situations
Fucking. Fascists. Criminalising the innocent and harmless to prop up moral posturing
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As interested as I am in dominance and submission, I never knew that that's actually a thing a master will have his or her servant do. I guess I should have known, but it just never really occurred to me.Originally Posted by Sarah K
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It's carried over from some old school shit, I do believe. Back when everything was much more formal, and positions had to be earned.
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Makes perfect sense, actually. The whole dominance and submissive thing probably started back with the upper classes and royals long before the Marquis de Sade became the one who was truly notorious and infamous for it (even though the things he did, in reality, were nowhere near the shit we'e come up with in the last fifty years). Shit, it's probably been going on as long as social classes have been a thing.
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I saw a few things about it this morning. What's ironic to me is that the most successful BDSM porn studio in the US right now, Kink.com, was founded and is being run by a Brit. The more people want to shove things like this down, the more it pops up elsewhere.
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- and the reason he is over there is because this country is becoming so legally uptight. So well done government for driving business, employment and tax money away... truly they have our best interests at heart
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Well, what I'm finding kind of hilarious is the fact that things like that are happening the world over. Everyone's getting more uptight and conservative about sex and sexuality. Laws, bills, bans, and all these other things are cropping up to stifle anything sex related, even when it's not directly related to sex.
And yet the sex industry (porn, toys, magazines, videos, clubs, clothes, etc...) is currently in a golden age never before seen. It reaches billions of people all over the world and people are experiencing and experimenting with so many things that it boggles the mind. It's actually reminding me of the whole controversy with the PMRC back in the eighties; in an effort to keep people from buying "filthy" music, they demanded that a warning label be put on the record. The only thing it did was increase sales, so the whole current issue with trying to make sex and sexuality a shameful thing is strikingly parallel to what happened there. In some ways, we're far worse about it than most periods in history that are falsely known for being prudish. The Romans were far less debauched than we think, but the Victorians? They were some nasty sons of bitches. Historians have found erotic literature from that time period that would make Larry Flint blush, and that shit was widespread, too.
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What I'm curious about now is how this will affect, if at all, the release of 50 Shades of Grey in the UK.
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This really really depresses me. Facesitting? Female ejaculation? What in the flying fuck.
Takes me back to the days when hardcore porn was illegal in the UK: yes illegal. Late 90s, buying bootleg US VHS tapes in Berwick Street. Fucking UK.
Huuge step backwards.
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None of that porn depicting women liking sex shit.
Lol. This doesn't even sound real.
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Why squirting is on that list kind of blows my mind.
she/her/hers
because it's empowering to women. just like face-sitting.
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Ready for the explanation from the BBFC? It's lame, be warned. But sort of a good thing in that it's so lame it won't be difficult to challenge
"If I may clarify our position, the Board does not in fact take any view on whether or not female ejaculation exists. As you admit in your letter this is a controversial and much-debated area with a range of views being taken amongst medical professionals. At the most basic level, however, the Board is content that the pornographic tapes so far presented to us as examples of 'female ejaculation' are in fact nothing other than straightforward scenes of urination masquerading as 'female ejaculation'. This has been confirmed by a female sexual health expert who the Board has consulted on a range of issues relating to videos intended for the 'R18' category.
Quite the opposite of attempting to confront the issue of female ejaculation in a reassuring, sympathetic or informative light, the tapes in question appear to be nothing more than a cynical attempt on the part of porn distributors to get around the constraints imposed on urolagnia in sex tapes by the current interpretation of the Obscene Publications Act. It is worth noting that the kind of material that the Board has been cutting is regularly sold as 'urolagnia' in other European countries (France, Germany, Netherlands, etc) where there is no equivalent legal restriction on the use of urine in sex videos. Indeed, although videos featuring urolagnia are very much in evidence on the continent, videos purporting to show 'female ejaculation' seem to be invisible. Perhaps female ejaculation is less exciting (or profitable) to pornographers and their viewers than urination? Generally speaking sex videos of the type encountered at 'R18' neither seek to inform nor educate about female (or male) sexuality but merely offer graphic (and grossly distorted) views of sex for the arousal of viewers. Indeed, as you acknowledge in your letter "much of the material [the Board] passes with an 'R18' certificate does not necessarily represent the sexual experiences of all women".
To conclude, the Board remains open minded about the issue of female ejaculation but we have yet to be presented with any pornographic video that has convinced us - or our medical advisor - that it consists of anything other than an excuse to display scenes of urolagnia. Such scenes are regularly found obscene by juries in the UK and therefore cannot be classified."
I have a meeting with my MP soon - probably won't be seen dead touching this issue so close to an election, but hopefully it can help get things moving
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It won't. Apparently this legislation is protect children... so from that we can assume it's ok for kids to access bukkake gangbang videos? Nothing rapey about them, ha
I find it amazing that a Conservative government, who presumably favour maximising personal responsibility and traditional parenting, want to absolve parents of responsibility for what their kids look at online by curtailing personal responsibility for adults
Tin foil hat time - I think this is a measure to put small content producers out of business. Why? I'm not sure. Could just be point scoring - UKIP (far right party) is on the rise in the UK and stealing conservative votes and MPs - this may be a gesture by the Cons to prove they're still conservative
It may be a measure to help the encroaching monitoring and controlling of web use
Or finally, it might just be that they are uptight and want to persecute kinks - and they know that even though it's morally wrong, very few people or MPs are going to want to stick up for pissing videos (essentially)
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Oh great. More with the "women squirting is just pee" shit. Ugh.
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This is more accurate, it's not as scary as it sounds: http://obscenitylawyer.blogspot.fr/2...cceptable.html
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Still sounds pretty scary to me... lots of headscratching going on amongst content producers I know. Although the legal costs will be taken down by the fact the payment processors get their own people to verify things
I'm hoping that interviews before/after (as per kink.com material) will be acceptable as illustrations that it's just role play
needle play is ok, but not face-sitting? just bizarre, who the fuck are these people
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As I've said before, I generally like to be the dominant one in bed, but I fucking love it when a girl jumps on top of me. wraps her thighs around my head like a pair of ear muffs and rides my face like a cowgirl.
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I'm getting hit tonight for the first time in 6 months. I feel extremely comfortable with this man, but I also feel HELLA nervous. I think just because it's been so long. It's like I have the nerves of going into my first beating all over again.
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OH MY GOD
I experienced a lot of cool shit tonight. Some new things, and then just other things that were actually upped to the intensity that I need. I'm floating now. <3 <3 <3
I almost passed out at one point. But other than that...
@_@
Exactly. They allow deep throating and gagging on cock, but not face-sitting?
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So I can process what happened last week a little bit better now.
I got kicked and stepped on with big-ass boots for the first time - A+
THEN
I got whipped with a single tail for what felt like a very long period of time - A+++++++++++++++(it was also my first time experiencing this)
That whip might be my new favorite thing. Good lord. I also experienced something resembling aftercare for the first time, and him even contacting me the next day to see how I felt about everything. It was like a whole different world...
My boobs are pretty bruised up, and I totally spaced it off yesterday. I put on a shirt just to go down and grab the mail. A guy from my building was down there and was like OH MY GOD WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR TITS!? Lol... Awkward.
But really guys, get whipped. It's the best.
Worth reMembering
I told myself I wouldn't, that I really shouldn't. That I would just be all steady as she goes, but FUCK!
I am smitten, hopelessly and completely. With a heavy rubber loving, gas mask wearing, bondage living hot sweaty sex on a rubbery stick of a man. We have the same kinky interests, and the same motivation for kinky gear. Will it end in a flaming pile of shit? Possibly. Am I going to enjoy the ride? YOU FUCKING BET I WILL!
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I went to my first play party last night, at the encouragement of a guy I've been talking to a lot recently. I figured him being there would ease my nerves a bit. I wasn't able to get there until like 12:45am, so he was already busy with women. So I just kinda walked around and observed. Some people were really nice. Some people were rude.
The first thing I got to see was two people who I have been DYING to meet in person. They play really hard, and that interests me. The majority of the stuff at the party was well... kinda boring(to watch, anyway).
I again ran into the drinking/smoking thing. And this one was at an actual playspace... It was bring your own alcohol, and they provided mixers. And then people were smoking weed in the stairwell. I guess it must just be kinda common around here.
Anyway... My next goal is to actually participate a party. Maybe after me and this dude actually play together a couple of times in private.
He just messaged me and apologized that he couldn't be attentive to me, because he had "an assembly line of ladies" wanting to play. Hahaha. Oh, the struggles of his life! Heh.
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Is anyone else COMPLETELY FREAKED OUT by the chain trick thing? It seems terrifying to me. Like, there are just too many things that could go wrong.
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No idea what you're talking about.
grrr. woof.
i don't have a vagina, but the thought makes me nervous, too. i dunno, i'd be scared of a link snagging on something on its swift way out.
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The chain trick: http://twistedpassions.blogspot.com/...ain-trick.html It's exactly what it sounds like.
My friends have been trying to convince me that I'm switchy. I've never really felt like I am, but on Friday night, I topped a couple of them. I used paddles and the best toy ever - a firehose. It was fun and everything. But the fun I got out of it isn't even close to the fun I get from bottoming. Maybe I can be a service top. Heh. When I play, I'm usually pretty quiet and I try to remain still. Now I understand why my tops view that as not very much fun. It was for sure more fun hitting the girl who was giving me reactions. Then, when that was over, like 5 women were beating my ass at the same time.
Then last night, I was talking to a dude who is mentoring a really good friend of mine. He was introducing me to people. At one point he grabbed me and was like COME HERE. So I went with him and then he made me sit on a couch and then my other friend came over with a slave on a chain and he licked my boots clean. Then he laid down in front of me and licked the BOTTOM of my shoes clean. My friend had to go to the bathroom and mingle for a while, so I held on to his chain and asked women to kick his balls and walk on him. I kept feeling bad and moving my foot, and he would grab it and put it right back on his face or side of his head. It was... interesting. I felt bad and I kept giggling while it was all happening. Later, when he took his mask off, he was thanking me. I apologized to him, and told him I had never done anything like that... Said I wasn't really toppy. He was like... No, it was great. I know I'm going to have your boots in my mouth again soon.
I also watched women get strapped into the fucking machine AND have a Hitachi used on them at the same time. NOPE NOPE NOPE.
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You certainly lead a fascinating life, don't you, Sarah? :P
I never knew what I was. I'd hear people shout confidently "I'm a Dom!", "I'm a Sub!', "I'm a Masochist!", "I'm a Slave!", etc..., but I never knew what the hell to call myself. I always knew what my interests were (some I remember discovering as early as elementary school; not that I could ever do anything about it, though), but some of them didn't go together and some seemed to downright contradict each other. I knew I was a "Top", but I also knew that that wasn't the actual right term for me because it didn't explain anything. For years I struggled to define myself, but it wasn't until I really started immersing myself in FetLife.com that I think I finally found who I am...
I'm a Sensual Dom.
Sure, I still love tying a girl down, administering a good spanking, scratching, biting, light choking, hair pulling and all that fun stuff, but I've always really been into the more sensual side of it, too. Full body massages, lightly dragging my fingers/lips across her skin, sensory deprivation, breath play, whispering in her ear, all these things that can reduce a girl to jelly and have her dripping down her leg before you even get close to touching her pussy. That's the kind of Dom I am... asserting my dominance and control with sensuality rather than what's typically associated with domination.
But if she really wants me to tie her up, cuff her and dangle her from the ceiling while flogging her, well, who am I to refuse?
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