Originally Posted by
sick among the pure
I don't know about everyone else, but I "grouped here" because I'm a NIN fan. I came to ETS because I love NIN, the music, the art, the person behind it all, and the messages he conveys. I come to the Headlines forum because I like to gather information about my country and the world from a bunch of different sources, so why would I not include such a vast resource from a social site I visit at least once or twice on the average day, and see what people have found out about and where their sources are from and what their thoughts are on it based off their personal experiences, educations, and professions. I mean, one of the regular posters in this forum has a law degree in the US. That doesn't make their opinion fact, but it does give an insight into things that I do not myself have, and so I add that to other sources discussing the same things.
I don't give a single shit about reading thoughts of people who have a different point of view. If I only wanted to hear "you're so right" I wouldn't get online. I wouldn't go to internet forums, or any website, or even play video games online in my down time. And it isn't "validating and comforting" to me to hear people agree with me. You know what makes me feel validated? When people treat me like a fucking human being. That's fucking validating.
What it comes down to isn't your stance on a topic, but how you respond to criticism to that stance.
It's ok to have ignorance on something happening in another country. I love hearing from my friends who live in or are from other countries about US politics/societal issues and their global impact.
It's ok to have an opinion that is not in line with what others are saying. My best friend through middle school and high school, who I am still very close with more than 20 years later, is very different from me in some very important opinions, but we can still have a wonderful civil discussion where we both come out understanding more about the "other side" and then make plans to get some pizza next time she is in town. Another close friend, who went to the pro-life rally, we talked religion and politics while we picked grape leaves together over this past summer to give to our mothers who are Lebanese to make delicious food with.
Nobody is faulting you for these things.
It's your completely inane replies, one after another after another, on multiple pages.
This isn't about wanting to live in a bubble. Wanting to live in a bubble is banning entire groups of people from entering the country, even if they have already been given green cards. Wanting to welcome all for discussion and coming together is what we want. Or at least, what I want, for this country.