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    It's not like I don't have opportunities to have sex with people, my body just doesn't work (chronic BV/ph issues bb) most of the time and hollllly shit it's such a bummer sometimes. The last time I had penetrative sex was JUNE and the last time I had any kind of receptive sex was like September despite having humans in my life who would be up for the task if my vagina would get its shit together. I do all the shit I'm supposed to do before someone comes at me with some "wear cotton underwear" shit. Hoping for a light at the end of the tunnel at this point with what I'm currently trying, just frustrated. Next time I see a sexual partner is in early January so I'd really love to be able to get laid then.
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    Did not get laid, still having bv probs, but didn't even want to. Neither of us were in the mood to. My desire to have sex with other people has been like... almost not-present lately and I can't figure out if it's depression or just fluid sexuality being fluid. Which like, isn't super great since I have a couple of dates I'm supposed to follow up with now that I'm back in NYC and stuff, and one of them is a girl who I think is just amazing and is super my type so w t f, brain.

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    i'm in a weird sexual slump, too. zero libido. none. it even goes beyond that right now -- i saw a porn ad this morning that honestly made me feel nauseated.

    wtf, indeed.

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    Ugh, solidarity like, dude. It's really bothering me. I miss feeling attracted to new people. Though hey, I'm remembering there was a burlesque dancer I saw last week who made me feel at least something. That's comforting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kel View Post
    i'm in a weird sexual slump, too. zero libido. none. it even goes beyond that right now -- i saw a porn ad this morning that honestly made me feel nauseated.

    wtf, indeed.
    That seems to be going around. I'm going to use the Broad City explanation and blame it on Trump.

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    My favorite part about this is that it made me think about how I'd totally make out with Ilana because I keep forgetting there are people who exist characters I'd like to do that with, at least, even if I can't get into wanting to fuck

    Quote Originally Posted by Ilana
    “I’ve just been more anxious and depressed this whole disgusting gross year and now I have dead pussy,”


    :~)

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    Quote Originally Posted by kel View Post
    i'm in a weird sexual slump, too. zero libido. none. it even goes beyond that right now -- i saw a porn ad this morning that honestly made me feel nauseated.

    wtf, indeed.
    I, too, am having the strange lack of libido. The struggle is real.

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    Quote Originally Posted by elevenism View Post
    I, too, am having the strange lack of libido. The struggle is real.
    Same. My guess / hope is it's just the joys of seasonal anxiety. Cold and grey, cold and grey, cold and grey...it's easier to deal with than "it's too hot to even think about going outside," but it messes with my head.

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    Shouldn't that make us want to do the cuffing season thing, though?

    I finally wrapped some traveling so I'm back in NYC for the forseeable future so I actually have time to go on DATES and intellectually I want to but yeah, the libido thing is just a mess :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by playwithfire View Post
    Shouldn't that make us want to do the cuffing season thing, though?

    I finally wrapped some traveling so I'm back in NYC for the forseeable future so I actually have time to go on DATES and intellectually I want to but yeah, the libido thing is just a mess :/
    I mean, I'm in a long term relationship. Cuffing season (possibly my second most hated phrase in the world after "bae") is for single people who don't want to be single anymore. Here, winter just means the windows are drafty as fuck, we don't turn the heat up high because of it so it's never really "warm" inside, my better half spends most of her non-working time in bed, and I'm a lot less physically active due to a combination of factors ranging from my job to a vitamin D deficiency. It's the perfect storm for just feeling like crap and losing all interest in...you know.......stuff.

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    I'm in the midst of the longest dry spell for near 4 years (its been 3 months), Some days there is extreme libido, other days there is no desire for human interaction yet alone any libido, there is no in between.

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    http://gawker.com/its-the-horny-time-1710702578

    MUST BE NICE, I WOULDN'T KNOW BECAUSE MY LIBIDO IS STILL DEAD AS HELL

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    Quote Originally Posted by playwithfire View Post
    http://gawker.com/its-the-horny-time-1710702578

    MUST BE NICE, I WOULDN'T KNOW BECAUSE MY LIBIDO IS STILL DEAD AS HELL
    That's got to be one of the dumbest things I've read on the internet in a long time. I can't grasp why people were sad to see that website crumble.

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    I kinda love it for how ridiculous it is.

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