I've been thinking about this my entire life, and would like to know your beliefs and opinions on what makes somebody a good person. After making so many posts about my flaws and what makes me a bad person in The Mental health thread, and checking out the Things you say that make you realize you're a bad person thread, it really has occurred to me to make this topic. I thought I could just shake it off, but I've always thought about it for as long as I could remember. I suppose any advice on how to be a better person and make amends can be appreciated and be of great use here. I also thought that this thread could be sort of a positive spin from those other threads I've mentioned.
To me, a lot of it seems to be based on self-control. And for me, I still need to work on it as I've had poor control on my emotions and thoughts from time to time, as I also believe that your emotions and thoughts also say a lot about you as a person. This also doesn't seem like a simple matter of common sense sometimes, because anger and spitefulness can get the best of us, and we end up saying things we shouldn't say, or don't even mean. It's also possible that arrogance and pride can have a lot to do with it as well as I've also been guilty of making jokes that were anything but friendly and respectable in the past.
And this is definitely easier said than done, but avoiding to do anything that requires forgiveness also sounds nice, but I could obviously see why it would never be that simple. And speaking of forgiveness, I can see why that would also make you a good person, especially if you're able to sincerely forgive without any discrimination, while having empathy, mercy, and compassion. However, I also have my share of trust and forgiveness issues. At my core, I've always wanted to get even, but I see why you'd have to be above those types of thoughts and feelings in order to be a good person.
Anyway, I just thought I'd like to see what people thought about this question, and it's also about all the big, small, and everything else in between in regards to what could or should make a good person. It seems like this overall topic of conversation can certainly and hopefully go a long way here. It doesn't seem to be that simple to me. And these were only just a few random ideas I had, as there's surely a lot more than can and should be covered, as it really seems to be a very broad subject.