Its always amused me that this pathetic type is unique to men (or boys rather). The vain, dimwitted, whorish, jealous etc are common to both genders, but the 'friend zoned' crybabies seem to be exclusively 'nice guys'. And they are by far the most repulsive. If I was a woman and got a hint of that I'd sever any tie and be thankful for the bullet dodged.